I know I have a heart, and I soooo gotta use it.

Another confiding session, another resolution, another leap of progress.

Is logic an impediment/defensive facade to our true feelings and what we wish to do?

Instead of putting up a best self in front of the person we love, will letting vulnerabilities show (of cos not be a weak kitten la) actually be a better way of fostering love?

Is letting your loved one worry a privilege rather than a chore?

Is love irrational? Is it supposed to be irrational?

Is being in a relationship all about being the perfect person, or about being the happiest couple possible?

Are the tangible stuff more important than the intangible stuff?

The feeling that someone is out there to care for you, worry for you, is probably one of the deepest underlying reason that gives us meaning to spring out of bed every morning to start a new day!! Being perfect is not as easy as being comfortable, so why not just take the comfortable way when in a r/s? Ironically, it could actually be the formula to the most perfect r/s, than to strive for perfection as the best bf or gf. And of cos, in order to feel comfortable and happy, we do not need to use our brain for that (well technically we do, but lets avoid the amygdala) . We need our heart for that, and I am SOOO gonna start using it.

SG